ainsley: teaching your son, too. your kids all need to do work. when you are teaching your son to be a good husband one day so that he can change the light bulbs, he can paint. steve: he lives in another town. it's hard to do that. ainsley: we had to empty the dishwasher. we did have to do those chores. you get to a certain point in your life is it okay to take a break and just hire someone? jillian: i don't know. i feel a sense of reaccomplishment. i regrouted my whole bathroom and recaulked my whole bathroom. my dad and i built a coffee table that's now in my apartment. i love doing those things. >> steve: yep, me too. jillian: other things i don't love as much. it depends on. steve: cooking and shopping helping around the house. ainsley: you are my hero. ed: do you think money can buy you happiness? friends@foxnews.com. did you hire someone to take care of peter? steve: that would be my wife. she still does to this day even though he lives miles away.