>> tucker: you write that michelle obama was not his first choice for a wife. explain the criteria he used to make that decision on who to marry.a >> from 1986 through 1991, barack had a very intense, important, formative relationship with a woman whoer was half dutch, half japanese. a wonderful woman, woman who like myself, was an academic, a scholar. journalists never discovered her back in 2007, 2008, but anyone could have by walking into the library of the university of chicago and who also lived at barack's address. but it's not just her. his closest friend in law school, rob, who helped him write and edit and hone "dreams from my father," they were these formative people in barack's early life who american