complaining whatsoever. the only thing she made us do was get straight as. when i see these women complaining, i love them, some of them are my friends, it seems a little out of left field. the authors point, these are privileged women, they have everything they could possibly want, i'm coming from it from a nonparent perspective. until i have a child, i don't know. >> tom: it's all going to change. >> maybe i'll be that mom. hardest job ever. >> tom: you are a dad. >> i am. a mom, too, depending on the day of the week. >> tom: you shared the duties of the modern mom. >> i do, i don't know that there's a lot to complain about. to be honest, it's probably one of the easiest jobs i've ever had. being a dad, it's pretty incredible. i don't live with my kid.