in for anxiety or abdominal pain or back pain, i have to ask about school. there's a group at ucla who has done incredible research. they created a school called seeds where they've studying bullying. in sixth grade about half the kids were bullied overseeing this program. it's by report only. the problem with bullying you may be patterning your parents' behavior. then you may turn around and become a bully yourself and become a bully yourself. identifying the aggressor is a very difficult problem. even if you tough it out, even if you learn to be tough, you still carry the scars for the rest of your life. you end up being very emotional. >> that's shocking that you can carry it with you throughout your whole adult years. >> eric, this is a serious problem. a lot of parent that's are listening to this should pay attention. 160,000 kids refuse and skip going to school.