hearing a strange man's voice. she got out of bed and found him in her living room. she immediately started throwing punches. >> i could see the guy standing right about here and then i just came out and started punching like this, get out, get out, get out. >> the 43-year-old then backed him into a corner and grabbed her sword. check this thing out! wow. well then she holds him down until police arrive. 30-year-old jacob wessel was arrested. police say he was high on drugs when he broke in. don't mess with her. looking to spice up your love life? just put that phone away. a tip for you. a new book says simply having your phone around while you're with your partner can harm your relationship. and according to a new poll nearly 90% of people check their phone at least once the last time they were with someone. we want to know from you at home, what do you think. do phones negatively impact relationships? send us an e-mail friends@foxnews.com or hit us up