while eligible for inurnment he does not meet the requirements for burial in arlington national cemetery. what cynthia smith and the secretary much the army is saying to you and your family is well if you want to cream mate your boy then we will take him at argue ton. if you want him to be buried we won't do that how do you react to that and how do you react to the army telling you how you can dispose of the morality remains of your boy? >> sir that is a disturbing on a number of levels. first and foremost i'm responsible for taking care of my son's affairs. his wife megyn is seven months pregnant. and it is her desire, the desire of our extended families to have our son who died serving his country intemperatured at arlington