birthday. >> he is like, i am working on the uh jeanedders. uh general yes sirs how could it be. >> you are media savy. you know your way around. you have good atence answering questions diplomatically. >> can stars be good at that? >> they just have to be good at their own stunts. >> do they do that? >> sometimes they do. the public apology is the new handwritten thank you note and it is the polite thing to do and the person who receives it just throw itself away. it doesn't matter how floury the hand writing is or what is in the note. it has to be the transaction of writing the note and handing it off and it being read for formality sake. it is a waste of time and energy. >> they move on. >> i stopped giving gifts. >> remi -- >> you don't have to write me