into oblivion. they spend their childhood with one goal, getting into a good school and being a so-called success. it is no wonder they want to blow off some steam. they have been running on the hamster wheel for 15 years. how about more freedom and not less? how about start young. take off the knee pads and let them skin their knee and stop sharp paw roaning their teen years and let them make the mistakes then. lower drinking age. yes i said it. let them have a glass of wine with dinner and stop acting like it is an elixir of sin sm. maybe they won't fly to florida and drink out of a radiator hose. let them go to college and don't pay for it. they can work and pay for it themselves. essentially tell them to grow up of the either that or you can go to your room. >> andy?