the thing is both parties, both males and females, are responsible for the sexual situations that they choose to get into. and both men and women need to be held responsible when they -- >> i agree with that. but the thing is, they're in an atmosphere where they're so hammered and the culture is there's drugs flowing, booze flowing, they overdo it -- >> alcohol. >> absolutely. and that's coming back to the culture point, that it is a culture that we need to change not to point fingers. >> mommy and daddy are paying for that little trip -- >> it comes down to the individual and your core values but also to education by your parents and teachers -- >> you never overdrank at spring break. >> i did, i'm not going to say that i did -- >> did you drink more than you should? >> no. >> i don't believe that. >> there's a famous kid in hollywood who's getting a lot of flak all over the magazines