some day i'm going to meet all those people who did those voices. who is normal and who is nuts? it's question we ask dr. keith ablow. >> about the man cave, good morning. it says every evening my husband spends two hours in his man cave with my brother-in-law. by the time my husband is done, he's all talked out and we rarely converse. is this normal or nuts? >> well, listen, it's nuts. this isn't just a man cave. this is like a marriage cave. this person's using the man cave as a substitute for the relationship. this is every night. it's two hours a night. either he gets out of the man cave and comes into the marriage, or there can't be a marriage. >> keith, maybe he feels like he can only talk to his brother-in-law about sports. they talk about sports for two hours because his wife isn't interested. maybe that's it. >> remember -- maybe he's a member of the he man's women hater's club.