engagement at the end. this isn't like that. i think even when you take that pressure off, it's people saying oh, i can be myself and this is somebody who shares my same faith and values and we get to know each other a little bit better and it shows how the local church will rally around each other in the various stages of life. i think for singles who often feel a little bit on the outside and left out, it's encouraging. it's very hopeful. >> natalie, many times we've done stories about match makers and one of the pieces of advice they always have is a good place to find a reliable person would be church. >> exactly. >> you think, well what if i don't go to church? >> well, maybe you should. maybe the show is going to tell you maybe you should. everybody needs a little faith in their life. >> i think there is one thing much more relevant and more prevalent in the 50s and '60s, everyone used to hang out in the church. >> exactly. >> there were church things going on every friday and saturday night. it would be the clubs of today. >> and there was so much community.