paternity before the birth. his daughter stays in utah with the adoptive family. >> i think it's very dangerous term used to, in a case like mine, the child has been kept away from her biological parent so long. >> it's hard for me to fault a woman for the best interest of the child. >> birth mothers say some flee for the safety. >> utah adoptions are being made to look bad this, is a tiny percentage that has gone wrong. >> she did not place her child in secret, saying the father knew. both give mothers the benefit of the doubt. >> insisting most follow the law. >> i'm feeling very connected to this baby emotionally and physically. i'm going to the doctor