described as briefly dating bill stepien right before the famous memo about time for some traffic problems in ft. lee. that drew a lot of criticism, including from msnbc's rachel maddow. >> why would bridget kelly's personal love life and how it was going and whether or not bill stepien be relevant to that question? real life, this is called slut shaming. >> i'm not often agreeing with rachel maddow, but she's right in this instance. events in her personal life may have had some bearing on her subjective motivation and her state of mind. whether or not she has done something or not -- it's pretty clear that she has. sigmund freud has no business being in this report. >> you're saying she's being described as an unbalanced emotional -- >> of course. it's gratuitous. they're talking about her relationship, not about whether or not she can handle how she