my third child with getting to the gym and getting the six-pack back. in my free time i had a glass of wine with my husband and made other deposits into my health fund. some were emotional health. you seem to judge that. >> i'm not judging at all. i'm saying, you know, as a mother you don't have to lose yourself in the process of raising children. i grew one a mother who had diabetes in her 20s, a stroke in her 30s and a heart attack in her 40s. you know when you have a mother that's usually your first love and your first fear is losing her. when i make that photo, when i express myself now i'm talking to all mothers. my fear and my passion is to ex press that you should really make your health priority. >> but health isn't the same as, you know, being super fit with a six-pack abs. this wouldn't be a controversy if you hadn't put the caption