dress dressy by drawing attention to the looks and sexuality instead of their brains. joining us is strategist. and lee stern is a parenting belower with diva moms opinion com. >> welcome to you. >> we'll start with you. there is one t- shirt that got attention from the children's place and talked about subjects that i am great in and all kinds of things. they got back lash for that and they pulled it, is that a good enough solution? >> i think it is a good solution but we have an overemphasis of girls and women on how they look nothing wrong with looking nice. but the over appearance and teaching girl that that is a positive trait and not substance and knowledge and being smart. you can be beautiful, too but