therapist, host of couples therapy on vh-1, dr. jen berman. i want to talk about these guys, but first, what is it about these men that would cause young, attractive women to be interested in these married men who are older than their fathers. >> first of all, power, money, and fame are highly seductive. one of the things that's really interesting, as you probably know, nick richie of the dirty.com wrote this story. he was on season two, i talked to himt quite a bit yesterday. one thing he shared after interviewing this woman for hours and hours and days and months is there was a grooming process, this is a guy who really was very seductive. he knows how to seduce women. he really looked for someone who was kind of turned on by sort of