said what i am saying one of the parents needs to be there and we need to better set up the kids. i don't know if this is a true war on woman as those with a political agenda have us believe. >> i don't think it is a war on women. that is a talking point of my democratic friends. the democrats have the advantage of the white house and megaphone and president obama sets the agenda. he has many weaknesses but he is good at seeming reasonable for the social tollerance we are seeing. and john boehner doesn't speak for the party and there is not a strong rnc chairman. there is elements that are the voice of the party. and they blow it in to this is what they stand for. >> the democrats were defined by