would lure them into the car by offering them a ride home, and that was the thing you always worry about. don't get in the car with a stranger or maybe he was not a stranger to them. maybe he knew of them in the neighborhood or something, but i think that there's something that if they can teach other young women something in america or help us teach children how to make sure that you do not get in a vehicle with anybody. >> bob: that's the thing that i found the most striking. that guy doesn't exactly look like your first date. i don't think. for that dude to pull up in a rooty old car and say do you want a ride? somebody didn't tell those kids when they were young don't get in the car with strangers. >> eric: i don't think he was a stranger because he was the father of a friend. >> dana: isn't there another lesson, eric. when you see something, say something. charles ramsey said i wish i would have been more heroic earlier. shouldn't people be a little