to this image which the other side certainly played up that you you were so wealthy that you were somehow out of touch with the concerns of the average american? >> that is a reality that you can't change. i mean we are are who we are. the thing that was frustrating to me is that people didn't really get to know mitt for who he was. >> chris: i want to pick up on that because there were reports that you and your oldest sontag tag were frustrated with the romney campaign that they didn't "let mitt be mitt" and didn't let him show his more open compassionate side. true? >> true. but it was not just the campaign's fault. i believe it was the media's fault as well is that he was not being give and fair shake that people weren't allowed to really see him for who he was. >> chris: what about the media? >> i'm happy to blame the media. >> chris: do you think the media was in the tank for barack obama?