violence. we feel like if we work with men that are abuser. not all are abusers. but if you focus in on getting men to call out other men, that makes a difference. one of our trainers teaches a class at the jail and he will ask men, why do you do this? and repeatedly done this? the worry is because i can and no one call would me out on this and made it clearr i cannot do this and if men call out theirr friends, this cycle would stop. >> gretchen: octoberr is domestic violence month as well. one in three experienced the act. thank you for your thoughts this morning. stacey dash blastted all over the internet for backing the romm rom. the attacks just got worse. would you trust obama with yourr cash? checking out the president's