their security isn't necessarily tied to a mate, of whatever source the mate would be, that if you are going to make a decision, you tend to weed out people quickly if you take care of yourself. you look at the young people i know that still are not married. they would like to be. or in a committed relationship. hard to find. >> greg: basically the idea of julia is self-fulfilling privacy. we have a government to replace the man or partner in your life and no more partners. >> kimberly: how is that working out? >> bob: some men get lucky. eric, his wife is charitable. but face it, look at new york city. you are right. men in this place -- i looked em them and watched them. they are lame brain. blunt instruments. they think about only one thing. >> eric: your are a shark type? there?