the people in that room and want to be with them. ronald tkpwaeug and related to you no matter where you were at. megyn: can you learn that? is that something you can fake or be taught, or pick up for election purposes? >> it's hard to learn, but if mitt romney wants to go further he has to learn to listen to understand that side of it. it's tough. i mean it was in ronald reagan's core values, it's in herman cain's core values also. but he's not the only one who has trouble when he walks into a room looking for the door out of the room. the most comfortable right now is herman cain. maybe rick santorum is comfortable in the room, but mitt romney if he wants to go further needs to start relating to the people at the water cooler, not the people who own it. megyn: interesting. there was an interesting piece talking about how even though conservatives would prefer a different candidate saying that, quote, we must rally behind romney, because he is sort of the next wave of what was once