that way but look -- >> neil: bachelorette is going through a major problem, but i digress. the networks felt obligated to take boehner's response, all good. when the it is the same on both sides again and again is that even necessary? is that wise? does it risk overkill? >> i think presidents need to use their opportunities carefully. you can over do it with the networks. they've been known to deny even presidents the opportunity at primetime. they pay a lot forever those bachelorette programs. you never want use it unless you have to. i'm not sure we learned anything last night on either side that was new or different and we are still in deadlock today. >> neil: you are right. i think we'll rifle through some of the times a primetime address has been rejected for this president a couple years ago. president bush a couple of times.