them and love your child. >> terry, can i tell you something that you will hear from me to you. i am so grateful that you gave birth. it would have been so easy for you in the time your daughter was born for you to never see life. but instead you gave her life and i thank you for loving that child enough and being unselfish enough to let that baby be born somewhere. i hope you goys can connect. i want her to see that you made the right choice and that you loved her and wanted her to be born. >> i was 16 years old and pregnant and that era in 1975, she was born february 15th, and like i said, i wasn't able to give her a name. on the birth records, they altered and maybe it was a typo. my maiden name was hayes . her birth record is hayes.