one of the things she was doing going her closet taking her clothes out wearing them out on the town. putting on her jewelry wearing that stuff and living the life maria shriver would be if they was home at the time. we are told at one point maria figured some of the stuff was missing and started questioning the staff on where solve her jewelry and clothes were this is shocking and unbelievable that's what was happening in this house whole. she even told friends, this lady told friends that she wanted to be like maria so much and felt she was a better woman to arnold because she took care of him all the time around the house. >> greta: i don't for one second let women off the hook in these affairs. they are as rotten as the men are in this whole wheating thing. did maria shriver like this woman? -- were they friends? people over the years become close to people working in their house. >> this is one of the most