he told maria shriver, for some reason he told her. i'm curious, was he worried that mildred resurfaced and said i'm going to tell your wife or some newspaper article. something had to have happened last january. >> great point. i'm not sure what happened between them. you are right tell maria a while ago. it is very interesting that's how it happen. all i know is that one of the reasons that arnold decided to say it was true because he felt pressure from the media that the story could be out there. i don't know whether anyone had an inkling it was happening. i know talks were happening. i don't know, i get the feeling that no one in arnold's life knew about this, including maria, which is unbelievable you could keep a secret like this for that long. >> greta: governor schwarzenegger has blown up his marriage, hurt his children beyond ward words and destroyed his reputation.