and they don't even have to be true. >> bill: of course you can make them up and that's why the children are being bullied. not on the play grounds but on the internet. and some president obama problems. is there a solution to that? >> i think that there is but it's a time consuming one. you know. and we have become instant generation. i think parents actually have to keep in touch with what's going on with their kids on the emails. it's not about being -- >> bill: you have to spy then. >> you have to say to your kids like our parents said to us. this is what we are doing. >> bill: have to say look, i'm going to check your email whether you like it or not. >> there wasn't a discussion. >> bill: one of the things that before the rise of the internet but it was almost coincided that i felt was very pernicious and you probably discussed this on theview was with guys like ludacris and these people, elm eminem just putting out music that younger people like which was so based violent,