that deena your ex-wife and lindsay your daughter will agree to a detox facility that they can go to the judge with to avoid prison time? >> we are at a point where it is imperative they do that. i thought they would do that right away. i suggested that. the biggest part i have a problem with is when she was sentenced i thought the judge would give her rehab first and then the possibility of incarceration after that. >> i think that would have been a good idea. don't you think -- you have been on television a lot lately. i am sorry i lost my voice. had a confrontation there. why are you going on television so much and you have just become engaged to a woman called kate major who was dating john gosselin and isn't this kinds of making another media event of your daughter's tragedy? she is supposed to come. why didn't she come first of all? s >> she doesn't like to get involved with the family