never have sex anymore. >> alisyn: and the blackberry is a marriage killer, honey, put it down while i'm speaking. this is what so many of us do escape into our electronics. we don't know we are escaping. we don't have the family dinner anymore because we are too busy on the blackberry. this is something you yourself suffer from. we think we have outgrown our spouse after a while if things aren't going well. what do you do about this. >> many of us harbor secret belief if i could start over again in the next marriage and then everything would go great. what we don't realize is that the second divorce rate for second marriage is 60% and for third marriages is 73%. so we are kidding ourselves if things get better as we go. >> clayton: david code, i like how you ended it abruptly. i hope everybody stays married. put a period at the end of that statement. let us know what you think about david's book. to raise happy kids put your