private lives for all and hanging up the chinese character for double happiness is an ironic gesture it is usually reserved for newlyweds but single and she doesn't want to be a wife but she does want to be a mother. so has it is interesting to her what you hope. of wanted to have a baby my whole adult life. i want to be a mother and as a woman i want to experience getting pregnant and giving birth to me. alan has petitioned delegates of the national people's congress china's parliament asking that single women give access to sperm banks but who in china where family planning authority is can still find unmarried mothers for unsanctioned babies