new group of people the day i showed up as me as vivian for the first time is the last time anyone ever asked me a math question it was very stark to see how differently i was treated one day to the next and it was. really shocking. not that i didn't into it that this is the case but tech spirit said to feel that. you know to have people suddenly opened doors for real thinking it's nice literally in the same moment that they say i like to think i treat men and women the same and like well then why is this the first time you've ever opened a door for me and my life. it was a fascinating experience the difference in pay between men and women is known as the gender pay gap prefers to speak of the tax for being different to the send she collected a turn to evaluate at the extra work women take on to get the same job as