>> what are the aesthetics compared to one human life? what if it was your mom or dad? >> this is the place where you jumped. >> yeah. this is the place where i lived. >> i love that. what surprised me and still surprises me now is the story that kevin tells about the day that he jumped off the golden gate bridge. he made this pact with himself which was that if anybody basically is kind to me, if anybody looks at me and says what's wrong, can i help you, wants to be compassionate in some way, if anybody had done that for him, he wouldn't have