really being tough and so was he, we would go back and forth. and then we fell in love. okay? no, really. he wrote me beautiful letters. and they're great letters. we fell in love. >> i don't know why that song "a fine romance" popped into my head. >> yeah. >> anyways, i'm showing my age now. is the president confusing nice letters with concrete steps towards denuclearization? >> well, of course. kim jong-un, he's playing president trump like a fiddle right now. in the meantime what kim jong-un is doing is de facto, he is a nuclear state. north korea is a nuclear state. and every day that that goes by that that de facto situation continues he's getting closer and closer to being de jure, which is what he wants. the north koreans are not going to denuclearize. his new year's day address he