taking the right side in road or going to an escalating situation. and unfortunately, he chose to escalate the situation by coming outside initially to speak to the woman. if he thought that she was -- and obviously hindsight everything's 20-20. but this is done -- i go and speak to nfl teams. i spoke to -- i've worked with the national hockey league. i've done some things with the nba. the universities. high schools. and i talk to them about decision-making. and the sequences that can lead up, little -- you know, a bad decision here, bad decision there, next thing you know you're in a world of trouble, you're in a situation you didn't intend to be in but things escalated and got out of your control because you did not take the proper steps to either deescalate a situation or to understand the seriousness of a situation and try to get yourself out of it before it all went downhill. >> all right. let's bring in our attorney. areva. you know, some things you can recover from. some things you can't. that video is damning.