they brought her in and was the last to step away, and i think one of them kind of had to insist that he stop because he wouldn't on his own. couldn't imagine him having to do that. for those first few days after my mom was murdered and up until the funeral, things were really in a fog. i was just in a state of shock. >> patty was driving the getaway car, and according to the felony murder rule, anybody who is a participant in a felony and there's a murder, they're also responsible for that murder. >> from april 21st, 1975, we've all lived with the death of myrna opsahl.