we are not compatible anymore. he refuses to hug me. her friend suggests going through his phone and suggests counseling. shannan says, he not sitting on no damn couch. she said this baby in my belly deserves his full love. the only thing i can think of, even though i don't think he has it in him, is another girl. >> that was rob lowe of our affiliate reporting. and a chilling report indeed, i want to bring in psychotherapist robi ludwig, the co-author of the book, "till death to us part: love, marriage, and the mind of the killer spouse." you've been following this case as everybody has been from the beginning. what has stood out to you? even learning now those texts. does it fill in some of the blanks and suspicions you may have had before? >> it really clarified what i always thought, that shannan