happening during that time. you understand thousand they'ho connected. they talked about the fact that the high school kids got a chance to come together to go to a san francisco 49ers game and they loved it, the idea they got a chance to be together again. a lot of these kids who are in high school haven't had a chance to come together because where would the community meet? when you look at this and realize that so many people haven't had a chance to even realize what this is like and what is gone, this pain will repeat itself over and over again. >> really tough. all right. ryan young, thanks so much for bringing that to us and bringing the story of people who are trying, you know, to keep that town together in any way they can. all right. next, he has changed. a woman confides in a friend about her crumbling marriage just days before her own husband killed her. were there warning signs for all to see? i talked to a psychotherapist about that. [ doorbell rings ]