tell me where her heart is. >> my mom has been resill yept. she raised five kids. she and my dad had five children, within six years and one week. then she's always told the five of us focus on your own self. work on what's best for you. don't worry about people or other people are saying about you. be strong. my daughter bella, who is 9 years old, she's an artist. she's at a play rehearsal right now. she can be a little sensitive to criticism. my mom will tell her, bella, don't listen. don't care. don't let people tease you. don't be embarrassed. her true nature is to be, look, if the five of us couldn't shake her criticism from the public doesn't. she's very clear about her why. she's very clear about her call