and i didn't see it as much as i should have. >> for a while, tony and joe started mending their relationship, attending aa together. the meetings helped tony get sober but not joe! then, on april 21st, 2010, when he was 26 years old, joe took the car out in the middle of the night. >> what happened? >> joe was driving too fast down a road and he hit an embankment at the end of the road and the car that he was driving flew up and hit the fourth floor of an apartment building and it exploded. >> he never made the curve. it was up and over, and that was it. >> and they did find drugs and alcohol in his system? >> how much. just over the legal limit.