i went to it sounds like a very similar school and there was a lot of heavy drinking and actually this didn't happen to me. as i thought about it, i thought, the same guy forced one of my best friends to perform oral sex on him. so this is actually very deviant behavior and it's not okay. that was basically -- it's not that i haven't thought about it before. i have never thought about it, though, as sexual assault. that's what was interesting to me because it so clearly was. >> that is interesting because this is a moment, right? so this is a moment. you and i have talked about sexual harassment, the me too movement, and this is yet another step where suddenly women could think back through the '80s or '90s or whenever and think, oh, there is actually language for what happened. >> yeah. >> there is actually a term for this. there is actually a crime for this. >> when i thought about it, i thought nobody would call it sexual assault. i mean, that's just what's so