and one of the things that they are grappling with is, is my son going to be held to a standard of whatever he did, you know, as a teenager. now, nobody is saying that any kind of sexual assault, that any parent should or would condone that or say that that's okay. but that is a very important dynamic that is playing into the politics of this. and the fact that republicans are hoping, hoping that this, what they call, gloria and i just got a call from a republican strategist, weaponizing of the me too movement by democrats could backfire with those women. >> so this strategist said to us -- >> they're boys. if they sexual assault someone, they might not be on the supreme court. too bad. good. they shouldn't be on the supreme court if they sexually assault someone. this idea that women are so out