coming to it. >> i'm not gay, i've been with tons of women. >> i touched a lot of balls at hebrew school. >> i borked a lot of women in my day. >> it's a guy bragging about sex, but clearly he's never had it. he was just terrified and we tried to think about it as honestly as we could. how would you feel if sex just got by you? >> wow, this is graphic. >> and then suddenly you're just scared to do it. >> any man you meet of a certain age, they all grew up with this foundation of sex comedies upon which to build. but women didn't really have that same foundation for female characters and sex. >> the real shift is the sex quest of young women who started looking at it from this new way which the sex scene in train wreck was totally original. >> can we makes it up a little bit? >> it was told from a woman's point of view. that was important.