right now. that's what feels like to me. we're falling apart. it is not about being right all the time. we need to do such a better job, everybody, of just having these conversations and really listening to one another and really giving a damn about how each other feels. >> we're tight on time, but, steve, is this a missed opportunity for the president to have had a conversation today, even if it is with only f ten players? >> it is a missed opportunity. those players on the eagles who don't want to come who apparently have problems with president trump, what they should have done, come, meet him, and respectfully say can we have a meeting sometime later, we would like to give you policy prescriptions, the president surely would say yes to that. and that would have been the right way to engage rather than saying we're not coming, we're taki goingom like a bunch of spoiled prima donnas. >> would te been a better way to handle it, whether today or not to reach out and say we need to have more of your conversation, to your point? >> no, because the president had