marriage, royal responsibilities and a rigidly controlled way of life. >> she tried to withdraw and take some time out. because she was trying to focus on really what was her life about. >> she scaled back her public role, staff and scotland yard security detail. butler paul burrell is one of the few who remains close to diana. >> she dismissed her bodyguards, because they were running tales and stories back to prince charles. she wanted her freedom. she wanted her life. >> it's a dangerous move. some even say reckless. but diana wants a simpler life, focused on her boys, a few select charities -- and? her new romance. >> the love of her life really