joe the terrible news that his beloved son has been killed in action. joe has to then come down and tell the rest of the assembled clan that joe is dead. he said, there's no time for crying. we have to get on with the living. kennedys don't cry. and jack says, he wouldn't want us sitting here crying over him. we're going to go sailing. that's what they did. >> joe kennedy's rage over the death of his son, he blamed fdr. he said he got my son killed. obviously, an outrageous statement, but it shows the depth of pain that joe felt. >> after his death, it was really jfk who had to step up and there was a moment where his father said, okay, you're next.