the woman ends up regretting that she had. do you believe that? do you believe that you're not really sure when something's rape, joel? >> you know, i knew you were going to bring this quote on. it's the media matters quote. >> answer the question. what do you think, joel? >> i'm going to get there. people need to know where the quote comes from. it left out what alex said at the beginning. he was talking about campus culture and the situation where young men are being accused on campus. there are famous cases such as the mattress girl at columbia university when it turned out she had been raped when it turns out there was consensual sex. and his life was ruined. he actually turned around and sued the university, and they had to come out and apologize. so what alex is talking about is