i mean, you always think your kids are going to bury you. >> yeah. that's the thing. we have to bury our son. >> lisa patterson was at the concert with four friends. she lived in los angeles, a mom of three, ti in church. she helped coach the softball team. her husband drove to las vegas on monday morning after hearing the shooting and had to return to break the news to their youngest daughter, who is just eight years old. robert says no one cared more about people than his wife. >> i was with her for over 30 years. i can't believe she's gone. i just told my wife how much -- how great she was to me and how she was the most beautiful thing and had the greatest smile and was such a warm, caring person. there was nobody that cared more about people and life more than my wife lisa. >> her eldest daughter says she's getting comfort from hearing her friends' fond memories of her mom.