you were like strutting around that stage making men like me feeling pretty useless at home, like i have no right to be near this woman. quite intimidating this thing you do. >> no, but i definitely feel that it is my job to empower women and i remember having this dream that my band was all females and i told my mile band at the time i'm sorry, guys, you all are so talented but you're not women. and they all had wigs on, they came to the performance like we can do it! but i found these incredible women and incredible background singers. do i have men on the stage as well. have i great male dancers. >> washing your shoes for you? >> no, i have incredible dancers. and it's great to have that camaraderie. i feel like i learn so much from the other musicians and it makes me want to be a better musician. >> what do you feel when you're there and you've got 175,000 people going crazy, this is never going to happen to me,