are so demolished they have to be identified with spray paint on the sidewalk. >> that's the bathroom. they always say the safest place to be is in the bathroom. look, it's just -- even if she would have been in there, she wouldn't have made it because it's collapsed on itself. >> reporter: she drove to joplin from oklahoma hoping to get answers after not being able to contact nearby relatives and trying on-line services. >> i still have a lot of family and friends in joplin, just the not knowing, you know. i know a lot of people are missing, loved ones. >> reporter: earlier i met neighbor aaron cole who says he knows almost everyone on the block. >> she is alive. miss cook, she got stuck in her basement door entryway. she's all right too. i did know that miss freeman did make it. she's in the hospital somewhere. >> okay. that will make it easier to find her. >> yeah. >> we called freeman hospital in joplin to see if she was there. she wasn't.