i am a different kind of woman in that i am pretty assured that had i married, i wouldn't have remained married because it takes a very different kind of person to put up with all of this and the reason why this relationship has worked as well as it has is because we define ourselves in it and not in a traditional form. there is nothing about it that is traditional. there is nothing about it that is traditional. although, you would be surprised. since i know you are looking for something -- you would be surprised that, you know, the past few days i have been meeting, meeting, meeting at my house. i would stop in the middle of the meeting, make steadman dinner, take it to him in his office and go back to the meeting. everybody is like, look at the little lady in the house. >> you really want to be a nice home bird wife, don't you? >> no. that's not what i want to do.